Identifying the relationships in your life

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Yippee! It's a new day. Be happy. Spread love like a carpet beneath your feet.😃

Welcome to today's episode on relationships. So how do you identify relationships in your life? Do they come in fanciful clothes? Or clothed in rags?😌
Invariably there are relationships we need to embrace and relationships we need to refrain from. I'm not saying disband all your friends and put them at #1Go away street😛 Naah!

In identifying relationships viable for your future,watch closely and observe how the people you are relating with  respond in different situations. Woohoo.! There are individuals I have embraced as friends in time past who have hurt me over and over again..Be mindful of who you let into your horizon.. ☢

Don't expect too much in a relationship lest you are taken unawares by the sudden change in the tide of things. Everyone who comes your way should not automatically qualify to be your friend. Dare to choose people who are pursuing growth,success and excellence.

Identify people of integrity not those who say A today and say H tomorrow. Integrity is who a person is. When you get close to people the primary purpose is not to relax but to add value to one another. King Solomon says "As iron sharpens iron so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend". Speak the truth in love and affirm one another
Also,get around individuals who challenge you to grow and develop your wings so you can soar high like an eagle. Don't have a casual attitude towards life or you will be disappointed.

Link yourself with those going in the right direction armed with a road map and find yourself at their table..

Xoxo😘
#Life is easy with you
#Relationship check
#Be wise

Enjoy your day
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