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How do I cultivate a growth mindset?

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Hi sweets, how are you today?  Top of the morning to you all, I trust God you are doing well. So for a while, I have been sharing my thoughts with you on Mindsets and I also used Carol Dweck's research findings to buttress my points. I know by now, a good number of you must have learnt a couple of things i believe will spur you on your journey to greatness. To all who shared my posts, I say a big thank you, it meant a lot to me and Iam excited😊.Also those who gave me feedback on how this 'series on Mindsets' has been helpful to them, I appreciate you too. So today, I will be sharing insights on how to cultivate a growth mindset with you, so you could make adjustments where necessary as you keep growing.  According to Carol Dweck's research, The consequences of believing that intelligence and personality can be developed rather than being immutably engrained traits, Dweck found in her two decades of research with both children and adults, are remarkable. She writes: “B

Growth Mindset vs the Work Place

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Yaay, it's a new day! Hi darling, how are you today? So for a while now, emphasis has been laid on Mindsets and how it affects the things we do. Today I will be sharing with you on Growth Mindset vs the Workplace. Why am I doing this? Because it's important and it will propel you forward in your workplace..Let's get started, I'd be sharing the story of a man name Jack Welch and how he propelled himself positively towards the development of his organization.. "Leadership is about growth and passion not about brilliance"-Carol Dweck..  Jack Welch took over GE(General Electric) in 1980, when the company was valued at $14billion dollars. Twenty years later it was still valued by Wall Street at $490 billion dollars. it was the most valuable company in the world but before he made this landmark, he eliminated the fixed mindset from his organization; he had to begin with himself.. Really? Although he had his shortcomings he determined to be a growth minded manager,

How A Growth Mindset Helps your Relationship

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Hey lovie! How are you today? It's a new day, so get excited and live this day with an attitude that expects good things to happen to you, because each day is an opportunity to learn new things, to stretch beyond your comfort zone, to believe in God and in yourself because ALL THINGS are POSSIBLE. In my last article on Mindsets and Relationships, I talked about how what worked for Jill may not work for Jack and the need for you to root out negative thoughts inorder to build a healthy relationship. I trust that now, you should known your mindset?😃. You can always visit my blog and read up other posts if you feel bored.. My desire for you is to advance towards success and get it right with your relationships so today I will be sharing with you on How a growth mindset can help your relationship.  To begin I will love you to be painfully honest and answer these questions below. Let’s look at the impact of a fixed mindset   on your past or current relationship. Think about either your

Your Mindset And Your Relationships

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Hello dear! Welcome to a new day. Do you know that your mindset can affect your relationships? Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, this I believe will help you make adjustments and get things right. Until we ask the right questions, we won't get the right answers. Often times what works for Jill may not work for Jack so what do you do? Before going into a relationship it is expedient that you set your mind right because your mindset is crucial in developing a healthy relationship. There is no magic about this sweetie.. Having the right mindset in relationships does not apply to only one gender, it applies to both male and female. Often times,singles  believe that meeting the right partner is all it takes to create that one relationship they have been waiting for. Once they meet the right partner, the relationship will take care of itself, and all other things will be added😂😂😂😂😂. Also most people in relationships want their  partner to accept them just as the

Do You Have A Fixed OR A Growth Mindset?

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Hey darling, how are you today? Welcome to another episode on Mindsets.. In the the last topic, I addressed Mindsets, what a mindset is and how it relates to our individual lives. I  also trust that we took the test😎 because I did too☺ and shared it with our friends so they could learn new things alongside with us. No man is a repository of knowledge the more we learn, the more we share the greater we become. Oops I learnt the link was not working. I apologize profusely for that.. Please check here... You can type it in your browser.  https://uquiz.com/luIk2L.  So today like I promised, we will examine the types of mindset which is 'Fixed Mindset' and Growth Mindset'. To begin, if you took the test Congratulations🔹🔷 and if you didn't congratulations to you too. Why? Because those who did took a step forward and those who didn't see the need to satisfied themselves.. To take a big leap into new things,you have to look beyond yourself and take your mind off why yo

What Is Your Mindset

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Hey sweetie... Welcome to a new dayyy!! That you are up today is an indication that God's hands are outstretched towards you and God is mindful of you. Many people long to be alive today but they are no more.. Be grateful... Good morning to you esteemed readers. So today I will begin a new series on 'Mindset' kindly look out for my posts and share with your friends and colleagues. To begin, I will be sharing with you the story of the chained elephant and delve into how it pertains to your mindset.. The Chained Elephant Story Elephants, at a very early age, are  trained to obey  commands and perform tricks for the amusement of visitors at any circus. When I was around 7, a big circus hit my small town. My mom obliged and took my brother and me to see the show. On our way out, I noticed that as these huge, majestic creatures rested,they had one of their massive front legs tethered to a stake by a small chain. Considering their size, you would think that they could e

PURPOSE ooooo..Pt 1

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 PURPOSE! At every turn, I keep hearing this Purpose*** What is Purpose? Some of you may be thinking*" who has it helped?😂😂.  Hahahaha, hey lovie, welcome to a new day where everything is possible by the power of God at work in you. One beautiful thing is God works in us to will and to do His good pleasure and that includes You too. You yes YOU!! But wait a minute😎, have you discovered your PURPOSE???. I recall vividly last month, I wrote a note to you, narrating how I sojourned like a hunter till I was able to answer this question... Why Am I Here? This 'PURPOSE ' is as important as the air you breath. You are on earth for a reason. In the next series, I will tell you why I am taking it personal like this😂😂.  So let's dive in.... What is Purpose? Purpose is knowing the reason for your existence. So many people are caught in the mad rat race of living. Others are copycats simply adopting the lifestyle of others and adjusting their regimen to suit their needs. Per

Look Within

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Hey lovie,its a new month. Yipee😎😎 Thank God for the new month and for ushering you into it😇... May you record testimonies... So what's happening? It's the sixth month of the year already😍😍.  Have you achieved anything yet? Ponder on this and make adjustments, remember there is always room for growth. So this month is a good time for You to look within** There is no point going through life feeling awful when you have huge untapped deposits. It's time to rise from the rut and start from where you are.   Going through life, I have had seamless encounters with people who kept saying Look within! Look within! I said to myself,What is within?  When you look within,you will see what is within……..Ebele Anne- Marie I decided to ponder on this and in no distant time,a scripture came to limelight …it says…………….. But we have this treasure in earthen vessels,that the excellency of the power may be of God and not of us.      (2 Corinthians 4:7) Wow,this implies that you c