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Happy New Month ๐Ÿ˜‡

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Yaaay! Welcome to a new month. The month of March. Happy new month to you all. May your life move forward this month.  I hope you enjoyed last month and all its goodies๐Ÿ˜Ž. Two months gone and ten months left. Whew! So how has it been all along?๐Ÿ˜ƒ What lessons have you learnt and how has it shaped your life? These are things I want you to take cognizance of so you don't go on living life haphazardly. I want you to live your best life and make tremendous progress. Don't wait till you get to heaven darling๐Ÿ˜You can latch on to your goals and make impact. I remember two years ago in my home country we all looked forward with glee to the Presidential elections and the top political parties had their agenda. I recall vividly the 'March Buhari' saga anticipated by the People's Democratic party (PDP) and the clamour for Change by the All Progressive Council(APC). It's been two years now and we have seen the results. So this month we will again examine a vital topic th

Relationship Maintenance

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We are all products of relationships either those that worked or those that didn't work๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Top of the morning to you all... So hearty cheers to all the amazing guys out there who put in their best in maintaining their relationships and making it work cos in essence it just has to work and ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣๐Ÿ’Œ๐Ÿ’ž congratulations to the babe's,wives etc who never gave up on that guy. It takes a lot of work to make it Work and that's the focal point of our gist today. Last week we examined sacrifice and relationships and I narrated my own experience,how I made a sacrifice that almost ended as a burnt offering. Overtime I have come to discover that maintaining relationships is real work,most ladies especially want to be maintained but are not ready to invest and do same for their partners. See ehn! If you are always at the receiving end receiving all the goodies you will stink because nothing is coming out from you.Bitter truth!  All relationships need maintenance. A relationship th

Relationships and Character

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......Your character counts! It counts big time! No matter how fast you run,no matter how hard you try *** your true character will always be revealed and remembered..Most times people don't remember what you did for them but what you did to them.... So what have you done๐Ÿ’ฅ Good morning lovelies I hope you slept soundly๐Ÿ’ค. So today let's examine a critical factor that plays out in the events of our lives and our relationship with others which  is CHARACTER.. Most people shiver when they come across this word** it sends a cold chill down their spine. Oh no! Not again. What is your character?  who are you? You! yes You!! Your character may be revealed during a test or when you least expect. Character is a strong determinant of relationships. No one wants to go out with a person who lacks integrity,or a person whose character is questionable. It comes often times in varying forms and degrees unfortunately,many ladies fall flat for this,also guys are not left out too. It is often

Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

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Hello darling. Oops! Did I just say that๐Ÿ˜Ž. yeah! You are priceless,all the millions in Nigeria can not be compared to your worth.  My heartfelt apologies for the break in transmission.. I'm back now so today let's examine a vital topic that concerns everyone of us.... Sacrifice! Hmmm... Okay! Let's begin*** *************⬇ Ooooh! I'm tired of this my guy oh honestly I'm tired. Ordinary sacrifice your iPhone 7 as a proof your undying love for me,he is speaking japanese.. After he will be saying I love you baby! I love you! Love my foot and he is not even picking my calls sef. Common iPhone 7,he cannot give somebody!  Hahahaha Do you fit into this scenario๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Take a deep breath and relax... According to Amie M. Gordon,close relationships require sacrifice. A sacrifice is the loss of something you give up usually for the sake of a better cause. The truth is there is no relationship you are currently involved in that does not require sacrifice. Every successful re

Yaay! Its Valentine๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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Chai! This network ehn .. Diaris God ooh. The society is too serious.lol. Yaay! It's Valentine..... I'm so excited. So much cake to eat today๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Happy Valentines day to you all๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ It's that time of our lives when we rekindle the flames of love in our hearts that started many years ago. Cheers to friendship,love and marriage. "Y ou are the moth attracted to the flame, Iam the candle and you got me melting"... Singles this is not your hotspot oh๐Ÿ˜‚ Love! Love is what binds two hearts together. But sadly today romance has developed wings and many African homes are not what it used to be. In this time of economic recession love hard! Infuse yourselves with so much love that many waters can not drown. When was the last time you whispered softly "I love you to your wife/ husband? Irrespective of what happens Love always wins.. Today don't use lines like you are the sugar in my tea,the cockroach in my cupboard,the mosquito in my mosquito net..๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚chang

Relationships and Habits part 2

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So today let's examine this poem on Habit's.. Here we go๐Ÿ”›๐Ÿ”›๐Ÿ”›๐Ÿ”› I am your constant companion. I am your greatest helper or heaviest burden. I will push you onward or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command. Half of the things you do might just as well turn over to me and I will be able to do them correctly. I am the servant of all great men and the alas of all failures, I can easily be managed. Those who are great I have made great and those who are failures  I have made failures as well. I am not a machine though I work with the precision of a machine and the intelligence of a man. Take me,train me and be firm with me and I will place the world at your feet. Be easy with me and I will destroy you....... Who am I? #HABIT ๐Ÿ”ธ๐Ÿ”ธ๐Ÿ”ธ๐Ÿ”น๐Ÿ”น๐Ÿ”น๐Ÿ”น -Written by Anonymous It's never late to make a U-turn. You may not be in a serious relationship leading to marriage yet but I encourage you to do a thorough check up on your habits before the first quarter of the

Relationships and bad Habits Part 1

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Habits are not instincts but acquired reactions. How do you react to situations? How do you react in response to your spouse,friends and colleagues? In order to build healthy relationships it's expedient that you examine your habits. Overtime people have come to accept their habits as a vital part of their make up . I've heard men shout on their wives as though Kirikiri prison is their natural habitat and these women in turn have accepted it as a way of life because they have gotten accustomed to it. For a relationship to thrive it feeds on love,respect and kind words. Your habits can either make you or mar you. A bad habit can make you lose an interesting deal particularly if you are a pathological liar.. Habits don't just happen they are caused. If you have developed the habit of telling lies to the extent that you are a professional at it and you get away with it desist from it! Often times I hear people say these words... It's too hard.. ehen! Abeg leave me it&#

Meet Ozioma, the proud mother of an amputee

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Yaay ! I'm so excited.Top of the morning to you all. So today as part of my goals to celebrate women who have gone through fire,defied the odds and are still standing, I went further to interview Ozioma Chioma Alagba,the proud mother of an amputee. Stay tuned as she shares her story. Ebele Anne-Marie: Hello darling, good morning. *** Ozioma:Good morning Ebele Anne-Marie: I am Ebele Anne-Marie 1. Can I meet you? Ozioma;My name is Mrs Alagba ozioma Chioma, I am also known as the woman of the moment 2. Can you tell me what led to the amputation? Chioma Ozioma: Michael was born with a congenital limb deformity known as bilateral tibia heamimelia, a case where the biggest born below the knee is absent, after four years michael could not walk as a result of the missing tibia, doctors adviced that amputation was the best and only option if we ever want him to live an independent life, so his legs has to be amputated 3. Ebele Anne-Marie: Was he experiencing problems before this

Be Transparent!

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Hi lovelies, It's a new day ๐Ÿ˜‰maintain a positive attitude and be happy. So today we will be looking at a vital topic 'Transparency' in relationships Mtcheew, I don't like what you said oh honestly. Yesterday you said we will visit your parents,today you are telling me they travelled. Last week you said we were going to Shop Rite, today you are just acting strange . Hmmm does this sound like you? How transparent are you in a relationship?  Transparency begins by being honest with yourself before being honest with others. Dealing with someone who speaks from behind a mask can be appalling. Have you ever presented yourself to be who you are not? Have you ever treasured a dear friend who stabs you in the back and spread silly rumors about you? Or perhaps you have done it to others๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‘ It's even more devastating when you have invested so much in a relationship. One of the canons of transparency according to Robb D. Thompson is straight-forwardness ! In your dealin

The difference between HARD WORK vs WORK HARD Pt 2

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Errrm excuse me Sir, my mother said if I work too much I will faint๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Sir this my right hand can not work effectively the bone there dislocated last night๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ In one way or the other,  people give excuses due to inactivity. They dread being sent to the bank to pay in money or do something of significant value to them.  The work you do with your physical strength accounts for 25% while brain work which is centered in the mind covers 75%. Physical strength brings you up to 1/4 of what you could have achieved if you if you had put your mind to work. I have discovered that the less privileged and disabled of the society end up doing greater exploits because they have harnessed the unlimited resources of the human mind while some individuals with hands,legs and perfect eyesight can not think for themselves. If you are not at your desired location, don't sit there complaining,look for the missing puzzle and swing into action. You have no excuses to hang on to. There is somethin

Relationships and You!

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Relationship is the building block of life. As you journey along in life it's expedient that you evaluate your friendships and relationships. Each relationship you are currently in now whether emotional or platonic either propels you forward or takes you backward. You must recognize those God has brought into your life and their purpose for being there. I've discovered that people come your way for a purpose, they come either for a reason,a season or a lifetime.Those who don't value your time will not respect your wisdom. The quality of your life is greatly dependent on those you call friends. Who are your fr iends? There is no such thing as accidental friendship.  Every individual in your life influences you one way or the other. Don't just go through life choosing friends like cashew nuts from a basket. Two cann ot walk together unl ess they agree . Before you embrace relationships do well to ask this question.Can I walk in agreement with this person?๐Ÿ˜ทOften times