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You are the SALT and not an INSULT

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Hey lovie Listen up! You are the SALT and not an INSULT You may be in a dire situation that requires urgent attention... Don't live in tension lest you remain in detention.. Move in progression and not retrogression... The grass is green on the other side You may have been downtrodden because you look casual..aha! Rise up and accept responsibility for your life.. You have a role to play too .. Remember you  are the SALT and not an INSULT! You were born for a purpose, discover it and work at it! Quit grumbling and grow up! It's never too late to live a meaningful life. Don't be afraid to take risks and venture into new things or you get risked out of life... Remember, Saul was looking for an ass and he found a throne... You are the SALT and not an INSULT Men may look down on you and cast you out like a stone.. What does he /she even have to offer they say..... You may have been ridiculed on all sides but you are not an INSULT. Will the tides ever change? W

LIVING ON PURPOSE : From Me to You 1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : From Me to You 1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Whining Never Pays

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Whining Never Pays

Whining Never Pays

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Ooooh! What is all this! I am tired! Just tired Each day the recession just advances and I don't know what to do.. I'm tired! Just tired! Tired of this house! Tired of my environment! Even at work our wages have been slashed. I wish I am in Canada nowπŸ˜‘.... Things will be much easier To buy clothes is an issue,even the staple garri we can all afford has been inflated To drink garri is now a crime To get a job is now a JOB Big companies keep on downsizing staffs despite the economy Is it PHCN?  the meter we were given is bad, they ought to be sued... You pay bills yet no light*** The government is not even helping at all ........ What shall I do? Dear reader, the economic recession is not alien in other nations of the world, it is no longer news that prices of goods have increased... Look inwards,there is still something you have left that is untapped. You still have great deposits embedded within you. When you encounter circumstances that cause you pain,you have

From Me to You 1

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Oh myπŸ”ΉπŸ”Ή My extraordinary readers πŸ’–πŸ’–♥♥ Each day I wake up pacing up and down my small room Refusing to be still Even at night I stay awake , pondering and reasoning. My mother says do you ever sleep? My siblings ask ..... Must you always write? Oh yes yes yes! I reply I shall write and I must write You will understand better as the days go by.. I remember how I flood my timeline on Facebook, WhatsApp and post my blog links even in groups. I still doπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ My friends tease me by sayingπŸ’–Is this your new ambition? Hahahaha I laughed hysterically. You see my dear readers,it gives me great joy when I see you living on purpose and releasing fresh blessings to the world.. You don't do this by wishful thinking at all Ehn how does it concern me you may say** as in? What is my own inside? The way I rejoice when I see you impacting lives,is the way I'm hurt when I see others meandering through life carelessly.. I have had my own fair share too you know and I don't

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Meet Ozioma, the proud mother of an amputee

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Meet Ozioma, the proud mother of an amputee

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationships and bad Habits Part 1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationships and bad Habits Part 1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Yaay! Limbs Day!

LIVING ON PURPOSE : Yaay! Limbs Day! : post

Yaay! Limbs Day!

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Yaaay! Iam back.  It's campaign time yipee♥♥♥πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ’Œ Top of the morning to you all and happy new week. I hope you had a beautiful weekend? I missed your company♥. Thank you all for staying glued to my blog. Last week, I shared with us an interview I had with Chioma Ozioma,a proud mother of an amputee and we heard it straight from the horses mouth, it was an amazing journey from start to finish. So in a bid to  further my goals in supporting women I have joined Ozioma and others facing a similar challenge ♥ ♥♥in  extending  a helping hand to child amputees. Iam certain there are other child amputees too across the globe and also in kicking vehemently against stigmatization of amputees.Majority of these children are stigmatized even in schools.  Children ought to be loved and valued,I still see few adults who have been amputated too. The agony of seeing a child amputated terrifies me. In Michael's case,as he grows older the prosthetic limbs has to be changed.. If you have a ch

Ahhhh! ANGER!!

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Top of the morning to you all... How are you doing? 😎...  So in order to stay on track and finish your course on earth, you need to keep the things of God fresh in your life..... So today, let's examine a vital topic that concerns us personally and collectively which is ANGER⛔🚫.... Mtcheew! Nonsense! I don't blame you, it's not your fault, you have grown wings that's why you have the effrontery to talk to me like that. Don't dare me oh because if I choose to shout....... breathes heavily..... If I choose to shout.....silence...it's because of God I'm leaving you oh... Don't dare me..... Heads towards the door, bangs the door..... Hmmmm.. Ehen! Tell me something, is this you? I have come to realize that most of the life issues people face can be traced to ANGER! There is no one who is 100% anger proof except such a person has been broken by God which is also very necessary. Most people today are beautiful by all standards but a little spark leaves an

2014 in Lagos .....Episode 1

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2014 in LA GOS   Epi sode 1 .... Ngozi Ubanka had just completed her mandatory National Youth service at Katsina state in the Northern part of Nigeria and returned home to Delta state, southern Nigeria where she resides with her family... She knocks on the door Ngozi: Knock !knock! Tapping on the door with her hands.. Any body home? As she waited patiently for a reply. Mr Smith Ubanka: Who is it? Ngozi: It's me Papa, Ngozi... Mr Smith Ubanka opens the door Mr Smith Ubanka: Eeeh! Ngozi'm as she is fondly called. Welcome dear, how was service? Chai! Ngo you have lost weight oh and you are dark like Ndi Hausa. Ngwanu go and refresh and rest. Ngozi: Ah! Papa what of Mama,I have not seen her since I arrived.. Mr Smith Ubanka: Oh! She went to the market to get akwu and other things for the house.(akwu means Banga in Igbo) Ngozi: Oh I see she replied. she goes into the room to drop her luggage and dashed into the bathroom to have her bath.The bathroom was situated insi

The battle of identity'2

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Yaay! Its a new day! Be happy and don't let anyone steal your joy. Don't celebrate yourself only on special days celebrate yourself always and make your life count. Maximize the moment and fulfil your dreams. Top of the morning to you allπŸ˜ƒ. In my last write-up, I shared how I did a sample opinion polls amongst my friends on 'Who do people say I am"and I also talked about how people are experts at knowing others and not having a single clue about their lives which is a risk to destiny. Often times I have heard people say Que sera sera-- whatever will be,will be... Whatever will be will not be oh honestly. If you let fate dictate your life you will make wrong decisions. To further buttress my point let me share an excerpt using my own experience . At a phase in my life,I struggled with my identity. I was a copious copycat not copycat as per cheating in exams oh. Ehen before you say see this babeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Alright so what was I copying? I listened to people speak and I was

International Women's day

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Never ever feel apologetic for being a woman. You are not to be pitied,used, cast out or discarded! Don't ever wish you were a man...yeah! Men are exclusive in their own class and so are you! I have no regrets being a woman! Don't feel inferior, don't look down on yourself,appreciate your uniqueness and revel in the fact that you are a woman and you rock! Yaay! It's international women's day! Happy women's day to all women around the globe,you rock just like that and I love you. 😘😘. Whether you are a young girl,a lady,a married woman.. You are a WOMAN! I celebrate you.. Shout out to all women who have gone through the motions, set a standard for their families, and stood in the gap for their unborn children,teenagers and young adults. I celebrate women who have gone through tough times and came out as refined gold. You are a woman and you are unequivocally important. So women's gist**"  I have observed that the word 'slay' is used inte

The Battle of Identity! 1

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Yaay! Thank God it's Monday! Lol.. Monday again yeah. Have a different approach today and you will enjoy your work.. So let's get started.... Welcome to a new weekπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ. Top of the morning to you all. I hope you had a great week? Thanks for staying glued with me. I value you.. So today let's examine another topic titled 'The battle of identity. See ehn! Just shut up thereπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. You don't know me oh. You don't just know me! Infact I don't have your time at all. If I choose to shout you won't like it just don't try me.  Try you ke? Oops..... Really?  Who are You? You may say abeg I know myself oh...So have you done this before?  Have you spoken defiantly at someone in a bid to prove your identity or issued a timely warning in this regard?  At one phase or the other, we are always faced with this BIG question. Who are you? Even in relationships,we want to know who our partners are so we can see them for who they really are and accept them into our lives.

Life and its Phases

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Life is in phases and men are in sizes....hmm.. How true is that? Before I go further, I will like you to consider these maxims.. 1. Everyone is destined for the top not the floor. If you want to be an eagle,don't associate with chickens and don't fly with vultures 2. Where you live cannot alter your destiny.It is how you think and act that will propel you to your rightful place So adjust! Top of the morning to you all. So how are you today? I hope you slept soundly☺. Life is in phases and your ability to recognize this and maximize each phase determines what happens next.. If you go through life in a hurry you will repeat your seasons and learn your lessons. Chances are that if you miss a phase,the probability of maximizing the next will be very slim because you can't afford to abort the process,if you jump you will fall. Let me explain further using an analogy.. When a child is born,he does not learn to crawl in split seconds,he learns little by little and gets a