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Happy 2018!

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Chaii I know in your mind you will be saying... See when she is just posting.. Lol Is today January 1st? Durrrrh!  Anytime you wake up is your own morning....😎😎. It feels so good to be back after six months...Whoop! What a  big break😏🙄🙄. Yeah so officially I wish you a Happy New Year..May you record huge testimonies I missed everyone How are you doing? What are your plans for 2018? Any goal in view? I know work has started and we are moving progressively.. So tell me whats happening in your space...if you tell me yours i will tell you mine😂😁. Keep winning Have a fabulous year

PURPOSE ooooo..Pt 1

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 PURPOSE! At every turn, I keep hearing this Purpose*** What is Purpose? Some of you may be thinking*" who has it helped?😂😂.  Hahahaha, hey lovie, welcome to a new day where everything is possible by the power of God at work in you. One beautiful thing is God works in us to will and to do His good pleasure and that includes You too. You yes YOU!! But wait a minute😎, have you discovered your PURPOSE???. I recall vividly last month, I wrote a note to you, narrating how I sojourned like a hunter till I was able to answer this question... Why Am I Here? This 'PURPOSE ' is as important as the air you breath. You are on earth for a reason. In the next series, I will tell you why I am taking it personal like this😂😂.  So let's dive in.... What is Purpose? Purpose is knowing the reason for your existence. So many people are caught in the mad rat race of living. Others are copycats simply adopting the lifestyle of others and adjusting their regimen to suit their needs. Per

From Me to You Pt2

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Hmmm* klez throat😂😂😂 My precious readers😍😍😍😍.Oh my😘 Hehehehe you won't believe it.. Things have changed! Chai!. The last time I wrote to you, i narrated how I paced up and down my room refusing to pay heed to what my siblings said, how I woke up early in the morning and flooded your timelines with my articles spilling all over like liquid peak milk◾▪I have not flooded your timelines in a while because things have changed. Every experiences and challenges takes me to the next dimension on what is embedded within me.. How about You? Do you know what is inside you? I'm not in anyway referring to intestines and organs***. It's time for you to connect where you came from to where you are going++++. Most of you have not discovered what is inside you. I remember how I used to walk upandan those days like Ajala the traveller😂😂😂. without knowing I had been laced with huge deposits on my inside... You may be caught up with the mad rat race of living but there is always

GROW UP

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  Hey viewers😃😃😃😃. Apologies for the break in transmission. I missed you all. Good morning to you all So have you grown up? `~• Grow up! Huh?? Me ke? **Turns to the left and the right** I'm not sure😂😂😂😂. Before you say aha! She is here again**listen up!! As the year advances,we celebrate birthdays,receive gifts, beautiful prayers and celebrate. But do we really grow up?? Why do people say a fool at 40 is a fool forever? Hmmmmmmm.... Stop using old methods** the systems that worked for you in the past may not be in vogue now..Grow up Our relevance is not a function of our age but of our impact- Ayo Olaoye.. Ehen Elizabeth! Response: Ma, why not go for a short course in Human resources.... Elizabeth: Mummy abeg,I can't,my mates are  far ahead of me. I doubt if I will meet up.Besides I am too old for that class.. ********....... Eeeeeh na wa o No matter what happens, never allow age prevent you from reaching your dreams. Each day you wake up is an opportunity

Recession AND its complexities

Top of the morning to you all. It's been a while😂😂. How are you doing? I am sorry for the break in transmission it was due to few hitches .. It's so good to be back♥ I missed you all. How has it been with you coping with the economic recession and moving up despite the prevailing times ? On a scale of 1-10 do an honest rating and record your answers.. So today we will examine a vital topic that concerns us all....... which is RECESSION What is a 'Recession' According to investopedia, a recession is a significant decline in activity across the economy, lasting longer than a few months. It is visible in industrial production, employment,  real income  and wholesale-retail trade.   The global recession of 2007-2009 brought a great amount of attention to the risky investment  and strategies used by large financial institutions, along with the global nature of the financial system. As a result of the wide-spread global recession, the economies of virtually all the wo

JUST MOVE!

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My dear reader 💖💖💖 Do you that.......................... Life is the real deal and not a dress rehearsal? In order to advance, you need to query your present level if you desire to see your next level. There are no sentiments in destiny Hence the need for advancement in the right direction The beauty of an eagle does not lie in a cage but in its ability to soar. Don't be trapped in the folly of comparing yourself with others. Lepers became heroes because they made a decision to move. Don't just  sit there! Move! Don't wait till the doors are open. Move and the obstacles will give way. Until you move nothing changes.. Ehen? Move to where he says...I should just be moving abi..😂😂😂 My dear reader, there are doors that open only when you are closer to them. Every object remains at a position of rest until force is applied. I have heard about your accurate plans so much that they carry a touch of divinity I want to, I want to....... I will,I will.... Oh wh

You are the SALT and not an INSULT

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Hey lovie Listen up! You are the SALT and not an INSULT You may be in a dire situation that requires urgent attention... Don't live in tension lest you remain in detention.. Move in progression and not retrogression... The grass is green on the other side You may have been downtrodden because you look casual..aha! Rise up and accept responsibility for your life.. You have a role to play too .. Remember you  are the SALT and not an INSULT! You were born for a purpose, discover it and work at it! Quit grumbling and grow up! It's never too late to live a meaningful life. Don't be afraid to take risks and venture into new things or you get risked out of life... Remember, Saul was looking for an ass and he found a throne... You are the SALT and not an INSULT Men may look down on you and cast you out like a stone.. What does he /she even have to offer they say..... You may have been ridiculed on all sides but you are not an INSULT. Will the tides ever change? W

Whining Never Pays

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Ooooh! What is all this! I am tired! Just tired Each day the recession just advances and I don't know what to do.. I'm tired! Just tired! Tired of this house! Tired of my environment! Even at work our wages have been slashed. I wish I am in Canada now😑.... Things will be much easier To buy clothes is an issue,even the staple garri we can all afford has been inflated To drink garri is now a crime To get a job is now a JOB Big companies keep on downsizing staffs despite the economy Is it PHCN?  the meter we were given is bad, they ought to be sued... You pay bills yet no light*** The government is not even helping at all ........ What shall I do? Dear reader, the economic recession is not alien in other nations of the world, it is no longer news that prices of goods have increased... Look inwards,there is still something you have left that is untapped. You still have great deposits embedded within you. When you encounter circumstances that cause you pain,you have

From Me to You 1

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Oh my🔹🔹 My extraordinary readers 💖💖♥♥ Each day I wake up pacing up and down my small room Refusing to be still Even at night I stay awake , pondering and reasoning. My mother says do you ever sleep? My siblings ask ..... Must you always write? Oh yes yes yes! I reply I shall write and I must write You will understand better as the days go by.. I remember how I flood my timeline on Facebook, WhatsApp and post my blog links even in groups. I still do😂😂😂 My friends tease me by saying💖Is this your new ambition? Hahahaha I laughed hysterically. You see my dear readers,it gives me great joy when I see you living on purpose and releasing fresh blessings to the world.. You don't do this by wishful thinking at all Ehn how does it concern me you may say** as in? What is my own inside? The way I rejoice when I see you impacting lives,is the way I'm hurt when I see others meandering through life carelessly.. I have had my own fair share too you know and I don't

Yaay! Limbs Day!

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Yaaay! Iam back.  It's campaign time yipee♥♥♥👏👏👏💌 Top of the morning to you all and happy new week. I hope you had a beautiful weekend? I missed your company♥. Thank you all for staying glued to my blog. Last week, I shared with us an interview I had with Chioma Ozioma,a proud mother of an amputee and we heard it straight from the horses mouth, it was an amazing journey from start to finish. So in a bid to  further my goals in supporting women I have joined Ozioma and others facing a similar challenge ♥ ♥♥in  extending  a helping hand to child amputees. Iam certain there are other child amputees too across the globe and also in kicking vehemently against stigmatization of amputees.Majority of these children are stigmatized even in schools.  Children ought to be loved and valued,I still see few adults who have been amputated too. The agony of seeing a child amputated terrifies me. In Michael's case,as he grows older the prosthetic limbs has to be changed.. If you have a ch

Ahhhh! ANGER!!

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Top of the morning to you all... How are you doing? 😎...  So in order to stay on track and finish your course on earth, you need to keep the things of God fresh in your life..... So today, let's examine a vital topic that concerns us personally and collectively which is ANGER⛔🚫.... Mtcheew! Nonsense! I don't blame you, it's not your fault, you have grown wings that's why you have the effrontery to talk to me like that. Don't dare me oh because if I choose to shout....... breathes heavily..... If I choose to shout.....silence...it's because of God I'm leaving you oh... Don't dare me..... Heads towards the door, bangs the door..... Hmmmm.. Ehen! Tell me something, is this you? I have come to realize that most of the life issues people face can be traced to ANGER! There is no one who is 100% anger proof except such a person has been broken by God which is also very necessary. Most people today are beautiful by all standards but a little spark leaves an

2014 in Lagos .....Episode 1

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2014 in LA GOS   Epi sode 1 .... Ngozi Ubanka had just completed her mandatory National Youth service at Katsina state in the Northern part of Nigeria and returned home to Delta state, southern Nigeria where she resides with her family... She knocks on the door Ngozi: Knock !knock! Tapping on the door with her hands.. Any body home? As she waited patiently for a reply. Mr Smith Ubanka: Who is it? Ngozi: It's me Papa, Ngozi... Mr Smith Ubanka opens the door Mr Smith Ubanka: Eeeh! Ngozi'm as she is fondly called. Welcome dear, how was service? Chai! Ngo you have lost weight oh and you are dark like Ndi Hausa. Ngwanu go and refresh and rest. Ngozi: Ah! Papa what of Mama,I have not seen her since I arrived.. Mr Smith Ubanka: Oh! She went to the market to get akwu and other things for the house.(akwu means Banga in Igbo) Ngozi: Oh I see she replied. she goes into the room to drop her luggage and dashed into the bathroom to have her bath.The bathroom was situated insi

The Battle of Identity! 1

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Yaay! Thank God it's Monday! Lol.. Monday again yeah. Have a different approach today and you will enjoy your work.. So let's get started.... Welcome to a new week😃😃. Top of the morning to you all. I hope you had a great week? Thanks for staying glued with me. I value you.. So today let's examine another topic titled 'The battle of identity. See ehn! Just shut up there😂😂. You don't know me oh. You don't just know me! Infact I don't have your time at all. If I choose to shout you won't like it just don't try me.  Try you ke? Oops..... Really?  Who are You? You may say abeg I know myself oh...So have you done this before?  Have you spoken defiantly at someone in a bid to prove your identity or issued a timely warning in this regard?  At one phase or the other, we are always faced with this BIG question. Who are you? Even in relationships,we want to know who our partners are so we can see them for who they really are and accept them into our lives.

Life and its Phases

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Life is in phases and men are in sizes....hmm.. How true is that? Before I go further, I will like you to consider these maxims.. 1. Everyone is destined for the top not the floor. If you want to be an eagle,don't associate with chickens and don't fly with vultures 2. Where you live cannot alter your destiny.It is how you think and act that will propel you to your rightful place So adjust! Top of the morning to you all. So how are you today? I hope you slept soundly☺. Life is in phases and your ability to recognize this and maximize each phase determines what happens next.. If you go through life in a hurry you will repeat your seasons and learn your lessons. Chances are that if you miss a phase,the probability of maximizing the next will be very slim because you can't afford to abort the process,if you jump you will fall. Let me explain further using an analogy.. When a child is born,he does not learn to crawl in split seconds,he learns little by little and gets a

Happy New Month 😇

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Yaaay! Welcome to a new month. The month of March. Happy new month to you all. May your life move forward this month.  I hope you enjoyed last month and all its goodies😎. Two months gone and ten months left. Whew! So how has it been all along?😃 What lessons have you learnt and how has it shaped your life? These are things I want you to take cognizance of so you don't go on living life haphazardly. I want you to live your best life and make tremendous progress. Don't wait till you get to heaven darling😍You can latch on to your goals and make impact. I remember two years ago in my home country we all looked forward with glee to the Presidential elections and the top political parties had their agenda. I recall vividly the 'March Buhari' saga anticipated by the People's Democratic party (PDP) and the clamour for Change by the All Progressive Council(APC). It's been two years now and we have seen the results. So this month we will again examine a vital topic th

Relationships and Character

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......Your character counts! It counts big time! No matter how fast you run,no matter how hard you try *** your true character will always be revealed and remembered..Most times people don't remember what you did for them but what you did to them.... So what have you done💥 Good morning lovelies I hope you slept soundly💤. So today let's examine a critical factor that plays out in the events of our lives and our relationship with others which  is CHARACTER.. Most people shiver when they come across this word** it sends a cold chill down their spine. Oh no! Not again. What is your character?  who are you? You! yes You!! Your character may be revealed during a test or when you least expect. Character is a strong determinant of relationships. No one wants to go out with a person who lacks integrity,or a person whose character is questionable. It comes often times in varying forms and degrees unfortunately,many ladies fall flat for this,also guys are not left out too. It is often

Yaay! Its Valentine😘😘😘

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Chai! This network ehn .. Diaris God ooh. The society is too serious.lol. Yaay! It's Valentine..... I'm so excited. So much cake to eat today😂😂. Happy Valentines day to you all😘😘😘 It's that time of our lives when we rekindle the flames of love in our hearts that started many years ago. Cheers to friendship,love and marriage. "Y ou are the moth attracted to the flame, Iam the candle and you got me melting"... Singles this is not your hotspot oh😂 Love! Love is what binds two hearts together. But sadly today romance has developed wings and many African homes are not what it used to be. In this time of economic recession love hard! Infuse yourselves with so much love that many waters can not drown. When was the last time you whispered softly "I love you to your wife/ husband? Irrespective of what happens Love always wins.. Today don't use lines like you are the sugar in my tea,the cockroach in my cupboard,the mosquito in my mosquito net..😂😂chang

Relationships and bad Habits Part 1

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Habits are not instincts but acquired reactions. How do you react to situations? How do you react in response to your spouse,friends and colleagues? In order to build healthy relationships it's expedient that you examine your habits. Overtime people have come to accept their habits as a vital part of their make up . I've heard men shout on their wives as though Kirikiri prison is their natural habitat and these women in turn have accepted it as a way of life because they have gotten accustomed to it. For a relationship to thrive it feeds on love,respect and kind words. Your habits can either make you or mar you. A bad habit can make you lose an interesting deal particularly if you are a pathological liar.. Habits don't just happen they are caused. If you have developed the habit of telling lies to the extent that you are a professional at it and you get away with it desist from it! Often times I hear people say these words... It's too hard.. ehen! Abeg leave me it&#

Meet Ozioma, the proud mother of an amputee

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Yaay ! I'm so excited.Top of the morning to you all. So today as part of my goals to celebrate women who have gone through fire,defied the odds and are still standing, I went further to interview Ozioma Chioma Alagba,the proud mother of an amputee. Stay tuned as she shares her story. Ebele Anne-Marie: Hello darling, good morning. *** Ozioma:Good morning Ebele Anne-Marie: I am Ebele Anne-Marie 1. Can I meet you? Ozioma;My name is Mrs Alagba ozioma Chioma, I am also known as the woman of the moment 2. Can you tell me what led to the amputation? Chioma Ozioma: Michael was born with a congenital limb deformity known as bilateral tibia heamimelia, a case where the biggest born below the knee is absent, after four years michael could not walk as a result of the missing tibia, doctors adviced that amputation was the best and only option if we ever want him to live an independent life, so his legs has to be amputated 3. Ebele Anne-Marie: Was he experiencing problems before this

Be Transparent!

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Hi lovelies, It's a new day 😉maintain a positive attitude and be happy. So today we will be looking at a vital topic 'Transparency' in relationships Mtcheew, I don't like what you said oh honestly. Yesterday you said we will visit your parents,today you are telling me they travelled. Last week you said we were going to Shop Rite, today you are just acting strange . Hmmm does this sound like you? How transparent are you in a relationship?  Transparency begins by being honest with yourself before being honest with others. Dealing with someone who speaks from behind a mask can be appalling. Have you ever presented yourself to be who you are not? Have you ever treasured a dear friend who stabs you in the back and spread silly rumors about you? Or perhaps you have done it to others😐😑 It's even more devastating when you have invested so much in a relationship. One of the canons of transparency according to Robb D. Thompson is straight-forwardness ! In your dealin