Accept Full Responsibility For Your Life

Often times I hear parents say to their children and wards, just tell me what you want I will do it for you.. Its beautiful to know that as parents, we want the best for our children but knowing when to draw the line matters a lot.. As we nuture our children and groom them into all God has for them, its expedient that we also teach them what it means to be RESPONSIBLE early so they can learn and grow up to be balanced individuals in the society. A 35 year old adult who still lives within the confines of his parent's house and depends on them for literally everything has not learned to be fully RESPONSIBLE

I have realized that many people go through this life without a purpose.If you want to live a great life and fulfill your dreams, you need to stop living carelessly and  take life by the horns and be armed to face whatever it throws at you.

There are seven stages a human passes through during his or her life span. These stages include infancy, early childhood, middle childhood, adolescence, early adulthood, middle adulthood and old age. I would explore this in my next post. 

Here are some key things you should know and ponder on:

The value of accepting responsibility for your life is limitless

When you learn to accept Responsibility you live life on your terms

Acknowledging that you are solely responsible for the choices in your life.

• Accepting that you are responsible for what you choose to feel or think.

• Accepting that you choose the direction for your life.

• Accepting that you cannot blame others for the choices you have made.

• Tearing down the mask of selfdefense for why others are responsible for who you are,what has happened to you and what you are bound to become.

• Pointing the finger of responsibility back to yourself and away from others when you are discussing the consequences of your actions.

• *Realizing that you and only YOU determine your feelings about any events or actions addressed to you no matter how negative they may seem.

• Recognizing that you are your best cheerleader; it is not reasonable or healthy for you to depend on others to make you feel good about yourself.

• Recognizing that as you enter adulthood and maturity, you determine how your self-esteem will develop.

• Protecting and nurturing your health and emotional well being.

• Taking crucial steps of structuring your life with time management etc. 

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