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Happy New Month ๐Ÿ˜‡

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Yaaay! Welcome to a new month. The month of March. Happy new month to you all. May your life move forward this month.  I hope you enjoyed last month and all its goodies😎. Two months gone and ten months left. Whew! So how has it been all along?😃 What lessons have you learnt and how has it shaped your life? These are things I want you to take cognizance of so you don't go on living life haphazardly. I want you to live your best life and make tremendous progress. Don't wait till you get to heaven darling😍You can latch on to your goals and make impact. I remember two years ago in my home country we all looked forward with glee to the Presidential elections and the top political parties had their agenda. I recall vividly the 'March Buhari' saga anticipated by the People's Democratic party (PDP) and the clamour for Change by the All Progressive Council(APC). It's been two years now and we have seen the results. So this month we wi...

Relationship Maintenance

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We are all products of relationships either those that worked or those that didn't work๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Top of the morning to you all... So hearty cheers to all the amazing guys out there who put in their best in maintaining their relationships and making it work cos in essence it just has to work and ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣๐Ÿ’Œ๐Ÿ’ž congratulations to the babe's,wives etc who never gave up on that guy. It takes a lot of work to make it Work and that's the focal point of our gist today. Last week we examined sacrifice and relationships and I narrated my own experience,how I made a sacrifice that almost ended as a burnt offering. Overtime I have come to discover that maintaining relationships is real work,most ladies especially want to be maintained but are not ready to invest and do same for their partners. See ehn! If you are always at the receiving end receiving all the goodies you will stink because nothing is coming out from you.Bitter truth!  All relationships need maintenance. A relationship th...

Relationships and Character

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......Your character counts! It counts big time! No matter how fast you run,no matter how hard you try *** your true character will always be revealed and remembered..Most times people don't remember what you did for them but what you did to them.... So what have you done💥 Good morning lovelies I hope you slept soundly💤. So today let's examine a critical factor that plays out in the events of our lives and our relationship with others which  is CHARACTER.. Most people shiver when they come across this word** it sends a cold chill down their spine. Oh no! Not again. What is your character?  who are you? You! yes You!! Your character may be revealed during a test or when you least expect. Character is a strong determinant of relationships. No one wants to go out with a person who lacks integrity,or a person whose character is questionable. It comes often times in varying forms and degrees unfortunately,many ladies fall flat for this,also guys are not lef...

Relationship and Sacrifice Pt1

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Hello darling. Oops! Did I just say that😎. yeah! You are priceless,all the millions in Nigeria can not be compared to your worth.  My heartfelt apologies for the break in transmission.. I'm back now so today let's examine a vital topic that concerns everyone of us.... Sacrifice! Hmmm... Okay! Let's begin*** *************⬇ Ooooh! I'm tired of this my guy oh honestly I'm tired. Ordinary sacrifice your iPhone 7 as a proof your undying love for me,he is speaking japanese.. After he will be saying I love you baby! I love you! Love my foot and he is not even picking my calls sef. Common iPhone 7,he cannot give somebody!  Hahahaha Do you fit into this scenario😂😂. Take a deep breath and relax... According to Amie M. Gordon,close relationships require sacrifice. A sacrifice is the loss of something you give up usually for the sake of a better cause. The truth is there is no relationship you are currently involved in that does not requi...

Yaay! Its Valentine๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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Chai! This network ehn .. Diaris God ooh. The society is too serious.lol. Yaay! It's Valentine..... I'm so excited. So much cake to eat today😂😂. Happy Valentines day to you all😘😘😘 It's that time of our lives when we rekindle the flames of love in our hearts that started many years ago. Cheers to friendship,love and marriage. "Y ou are the moth attracted to the flame, Iam the candle and you got me melting"... Singles this is not your hotspot oh😂 Love! Love is what binds two hearts together. But sadly today romance has developed wings and many African homes are not what it used to be. In this time of economic recession love hard! Infuse yourselves with so much love that many waters can not drown. When was the last time you whispered softly "I love you to your wife/ husband? Irrespective of what happens Love always wins.. Today don't use lines like you are the sugar in my tea,the c...

Relationships and Habits part 2

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So today let's examine this poem on Habit's.. Here we go🔛🔛🔛🔛 I am your constant companion. I am your greatest helper or heaviest burden. I will push you onward or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command. Half of the things you do might just as well turn over to me and I will be able to do them correctly. I am the servant of all great men and the alas of all failures, I can easily be managed. Those who are great I have made great and those who are failures  I have made failures as well. I am not a machine though I work with the precision of a machine and the intelligence of a man. Take me,train me and be firm with me and I will place the world at your feet. Be easy with me and I will destroy you....... Who am I? #HABIT 🔸🔸🔸🔹🔹🔹🔹 -Written by Anonymous It's never late to make a U-turn. You may not be in a serious relation...

Relationships and bad Habits Part 1

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Habits are not instincts but acquired reactions. How do you react to situations? How do you react in response to your spouse,friends and colleagues? In order to build healthy relationships it's expedient that you examine your habits. Overtime people have come to accept their habits as a vital part of their make up . I've heard men shout on their wives as though Kirikiri prison is their natural habitat and these women in turn have accepted it as a way of life because they have gotten accustomed to it. For a relationship to thrive it feeds on love,respect and kind words. Your habits can either make you or mar you. A bad habit can make you lose an interesting deal particularly if you are a pathological liar.. Habits don't just happen they are caused. If you have developed the habit of telling lies to the extent that you are a professional at it and you get away with it desist from it! Often times I hear people say these words... It's too hard.. ehen! Abeg leave me it...