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Accept Full Responsibility For Your Life

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Often times I hear parents say to their children and wards, just tell me what you want I will do it for you.. Its beautiful to know that as parents, we want the best for our children but knowing when to draw the line matters a lot.. As we nuture our children and groom them into all God has for them, its expedient that we also teach them what it means to be RESPONSIBLE early so they can learn and grow up to be balanced individuals in the society. A 35 year old adult who still lives within the confines of his parent's house and depends on them for literally everything has not learned to be fully RESPONSIBLE I have realized that many people go through this life without a purpose.If you want to live a great life and fulfill your dreams, you need to stop living carelessly and  take life by the horns and be armed to face whatever it throws at you. There are seven stages a human passes through during his or her life span. These stages include infancy, early childhood, middle c...

Identifying the relationships in your life

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Yippee! It's a new day. Be happy. Spread love like a carpet beneath your feet.๐Ÿ˜ƒ Welcome to today's episode on relationships. So how do you identify relationships in your life? Do they come in fanciful clothes? Or clothed in rags?๐Ÿ˜Œ Invariably there are relationships we need to embrace and relationships we need to refrain from. I'm not saying disband all your friends and put them at #1Go away street๐Ÿ˜› Naah! In identifying relationships viable for your future,watch closely and observe how the people you are relating with  respond in different situations. Woohoo.! There are individuals I have embraced as friends in time past who have hurt me over and over again..Be mindful of who you let into your horizon.. ☢ Don't expect too much in a relationship lest you are taken unawares by the sudden change in the tide of things. Everyone who comes your way should not automatically qualify to be your friend. Dare to choose people who are pursuing growth,success and excellence. ...

Dealing with Rejection in Network Marketing

Do you keep getting No's despite your efforts? Are you at the brink of giving up completely in your Network marketing career? Then read on.. Rejection is very tough but the good news is, it can be dealt with. Often times new independent distributors who sign up with a  company encounter rejection within the first 2-3 months of their enterpreneurial journey and in the end 75% give up and conclude its not their thing,others say oops I tried I can't kill myself. What is Rejection? To reject means to deny,to refuse, to disallow, to repel,to decline,to brush off or to turn down. Rejection is the refusal to accept or consider something. Although rejection comes in varying forms,one important thing to note in this business is that rejection is common. If you intend to be committed to growing your MLM business from the scratch to a conglomerate, if you are committed to building and thriving in MLM, then rejection is part of the parcel you would unwrap. Rejection can be tough especially...

Happy 2018!

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Chaii I know in your mind you will be saying... See when she is just posting.. Lol Is today January 1st? Durrrrh!  Anytime you wake up is your own morning....😎😎. It feels so good to be back after six months...Whoop! What a  big break😏🙄🙄. Yeah so officially I wish you a Happy New Year..May you record huge testimonies I missed everyone How are you doing? What are your plans for 2018? Any goal in view? I know work has started and we are moving progressively.. So tell me whats happening in your space...if you tell me yours i will tell you mine😂😁. Keep winning Have a fabulous year

It's Time To Make MORE MONEY

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Eeeeeh! My people.....it's been awhile. Happy September to you all. How has it been all along?. The 'ember months is usually accompanied by fear of the unknown because many things happen but note this .... Nothing is going to happen to you, you will have more reasons to rejoice . In September what will you be doing? As for me I will be counting my millions. I know you will say Amen😂😂😂. My apologies for being away, I will let you know the real deal .So down to business, do you know you know with a smart phone and access to the internet you can make more Cash??? I don't mean Ponzi schemes before you say what is she saying sef. Money is a defence and money gives you a voice too. It's my desire to see you succeed on all levels especially if you are yet to discover your passion or even make money from it. WHY?? #1. Getting a white collar job  these days doesn't come easy so while looking out for one, try to star something that wi...

IT'S TIME FOR A RESET

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Yaay** Good morning to you all.....How are you today? So tell me if you were not bound by the confines of your mind, who would you be?  Last month we examined Mindsets ranging from Fixed Mindset vs Growth Mindset, we also saw the relationship between Mindset and money, Mindset and the Workplace, relationships and so on.  I am certain that a good number of you were able to identify your Mindsets and you learnt vital things that changed rattled your thinking. So after Mindsets what next? May be it's time for a reset... Eeeh! Reset ke? The human mind is powerful,whatever you set your heart towards will be manifested in due time. But why do you need to reset? When you purchase a new phone, it has to be reset for it to operate optimally at its peak, for instance if the date reads July 26,2012 and the time reads ....2am when in the actual sense it's 3pm ** Your reactions will be spontaneous right? You won't smile at it and say yes yes yes, most of you will even say forward eve...

WHEN GIRLS PRAY

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Hello delectable Queens, how are you today? Wow! Thank God you are alive, it’s a great privilege given to you by God.Ehen. You know prayer changes things ba?? I know you have heard this before . So part of my goals is to see girls stand firm and become equipped to be great women in the society. For the past 7 months,I have been actively engaged in praying for girls, I’m extending this to you too, if you know any young girl, teenage girls especially that this will be of immense benefit to, kindly holler me or send a message, I’d love to hear from you. There is an army rising and God is doing a great work in our midst….or are you not tired of hearing gory stories about rape, sexual abuse, gender mutilation and the likes??? I don’t know if you are tired but personally I’m worried and prayer is the best place to start from…Furthermore it’s not only prayers we do there oh before you wink your eyes at me๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜™we do Bible study, we talk about things affecting girls and other things… If yo...

Timely Opportunities

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Hey sweetie, how are you? It's been awhile๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.. Yup** I'm back๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž.. I missed you all. Though the month is far spent๐Ÿ˜, I am still going to wish you a happy new month** Eneeen๐Ÿ˜‚but why? What's the need you may say? In life, whenever you wake up is your own morning. Life has varying seasons, and how we maximize each season counts.  What season are you presently in? Irrespective of what is happening around you choose to believe that things will get better each day and you will be amazed at the results. So today I have an offer for you. It's no longer news that entrepreneurship is the real deal and trust me knowledge is power, what you learn today can profit you tomorrow in countless ways... Have you checked your goal book recently? Are there unattainable goals left? All hope is not lost you can still do something today that will make a difference. If you keep on procrastinating, in five years time you will still be at that spot. Seize the moment! Rise to the occas...

How do I cultivate a growth mindset?

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Hi sweets, how are you today?  Top of the morning to you all, I trust God you are doing well. So for a while, I have been sharing my thoughts with you on Mindsets and I also used Carol Dweck's research findings to buttress my points. I know by now, a good number of you must have learnt a couple of things i believe will spur you on your journey to greatness. To all who shared my posts, I say a big thank you, it meant a lot to me and Iam excited๐Ÿ˜Š.Also those who gave me feedback on how this 'series on Mindsets' has been helpful to them, I appreciate you too. So today, I will be sharing insights on how to cultivate a growth mindset with you, so you could make adjustments where necessary as you keep growing.  According to Carol Dweck's research, The consequences of believing that intelligence and personality can be developed rather than being immutably engrained traits, Dweck found in her two decades of research with both children and adults, are remarkable. She writes: “B...

Growth Mindset vs the Work Place

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Yaay, it's a new day! Hi darling, how are you today? So for a while now, emphasis has been laid on Mindsets and how it affects the things we do. Today I will be sharing with you on Growth Mindset vs the Workplace. Why am I doing this? Because it's important and it will propel you forward in your workplace..Let's get started, I'd be sharing the story of a man name Jack Welch and how he propelled himself positively towards the development of his organization.. "Leadership is about growth and passion not about brilliance"-Carol Dweck..  Jack Welch took over GE(General Electric) in 1980, when the company was valued at $14billion dollars. Twenty years later it was still valued by Wall Street at $490 billion dollars. it was the most valuable company in the world but before he made this landmark, he eliminated the fixed mindset from his organization; he had to begin with himself.. Really? Although he had his shortcomings he determined to be a growth minded manager,...

How A Growth Mindset Helps your Relationship

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Hey lovie! How are you today? It's a new day, so get excited and live this day with an attitude that expects good things to happen to you, because each day is an opportunity to learn new things, to stretch beyond your comfort zone, to believe in God and in yourself because ALL THINGS are POSSIBLE. In my last article on Mindsets and Relationships, I talked about how what worked for Jill may not work for Jack and the need for you to root out negative thoughts inorder to build a healthy relationship. I trust that now, you should known your mindset?๐Ÿ˜ƒ. You can always visit my blog and read up other posts if you feel bored.. My desire for you is to advance towards success and get it right with your relationships so today I will be sharing with you on How a growth mindset can help your relationship.  To begin I will love you to be painfully honest and answer these questions below. Let’s look at the impact of a fixed mindset   on your past or current relationship. Think about either ...

Your Mindset And Your Relationships

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Hello dear! Welcome to a new day. Do you know that your mindset can affect your relationships? Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, this I believe will help you make adjustments and get things right. Until we ask the right questions, we won't get the right answers. Often times what works for Jill may not work for Jack so what do you do? Before going into a relationship it is expedient that you set your mind right because your mindset is crucial in developing a healthy relationship. There is no magic about this sweetie.. Having the right mindset in relationships does not apply to only one gender, it applies to both male and female. Often times,singles  believe that meeting the right partner is all it takes to create that one relationship they have been waiting for. Once they meet the right partner, the relationship will take care of itself, and all other things will be added😂😂😂😂😂. Also most people in relat...

Do You Have A Fixed OR A Growth Mindset?

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Hey darling, how are you today? Welcome to another episode on Mindsets.. In the the last topic, I addressed Mindsets, what a mindset is and how it relates to our individual lives. I  also trust that we took the test๐Ÿ˜Ž because I did too☺ and shared it with our friends so they could learn new things alongside with us. No man is a repository of knowledge the more we learn, the more we share the greater we become. Oops I learnt the link was not working. I apologize profusely for that.. Please check here... You can type it in your browser.  https://uquiz.com/luIk2L.  So today like I promised, we will examine the types of mindset which is 'Fixed Mindset' and Growth Mindset'. To begin, if you took the test Congratulations๐Ÿ”น๐Ÿ”ท and if you didn't congratulations to you too. Why? Because those who did took a step forward and those who didn't see the need to satisfied themselves.. To take a big leap into new things,you have to look beyond yourself and take your mind off why yo...

What Is Your Mindset

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Hey sweetie... Welcome to a new dayyy!! That you are up today is an indication that God's hands are outstretched towards you and God is mindful of you. Many people long to be alive today but they are no more.. Be grateful... Good morning to you esteemed readers. So today I will begin a new series on 'Mindset' kindly look out for my posts and share with your friends and colleagues. To begin, I will be sharing with you the story of the chained elephant and delve into how it pertains to your mindset.. The Chained Elephant Story Elephants, at a very early age, are  trained to obey  commands and perform tricks for the amusement of visitors at any circus. When I was around 7, a big circus hit my small town. My mom obliged and took my brother and me to see the show. On our way out, I noticed that as these huge, majestic creatures rested,they had one of their massive front legs tethered to a stake by a small chain. Considering their size, you would think that they ...

PURPOSE ooooo..Pt 1

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 PURPOSE! At every turn, I keep hearing this Purpose*** What is Purpose? Some of you may be thinking*" who has it helped?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.  Hahahaha, hey lovie, welcome to a new day where everything is possible by the power of God at work in you. One beautiful thing is God works in us to will and to do His good pleasure and that includes You too. You yes YOU!! But wait a minute๐Ÿ˜Ž, have you discovered your PURPOSE???. I recall vividly last month, I wrote a note to you, narrating how I sojourned like a hunter till I was able to answer this question... Why Am I Here? This 'PURPOSE ' is as important as the air you breath. You are on earth for a reason. In the next series, I will tell you why I am taking it personal like this๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.  So let's dive in.... What is Purpose? Purpose is knowing the reason for your existence. So many people are caught in the mad rat race of living. Others are copycats simply adopting the lifestyle of others and adjusting their regimen to suit their needs. Per...

Look Within

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Hey lovie,its a new month. Yipee😎😎 Thank God for the new month and for ushering you into it😇... May you record testimonies... So what's happening? It's the sixth month of the year already😍😍.  Have you achieved anything yet? Ponder on this and make adjustments, remember there is always room for growth. So this month is a good time for You to look within** There is no point going through life feeling awful when you have huge untapped deposits. It's time to rise from the rut and start from where you are.   Going through life, I have had seamless encounters with people who kept saying Look within! Look within! I said to myself,What is within?  When you look within,you will see what is within……..Ebele Anne- Marie I decided to ponder on this and in no distant time,a scripture came to limelight …it says…………….. But we have this treasure in earthen vessels,that the excellency of the powe...

From Me to You Pt2

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Hmmm* klez throat๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ My precious readers๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜.Oh my๐Ÿ˜˜ Hehehehe you won't believe it.. Things have changed! Chai!. The last time I wrote to you, i narrated how I paced up and down my room refusing to pay heed to what my siblings said, how I woke up early in the morning and flooded your timelines with my articles spilling all over like liquid peak milk◾▪I have not flooded your timelines in a while because things have changed. Every experiences and challenges takes me to the next dimension on what is embedded within me.. How about You? Do you know what is inside you? I'm not in anyway referring to intestines and organs***. It's time for you to connect where you came from to where you are going++++. Most of you have not discovered what is inside you. I remember how I used to walk upandan those days like Ajala the traveller๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. without knowing I had been laced with huge deposits on my inside... You may be caught up with the mad rat race of living but there is always ...

Dealing with ANGER

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In our last discussion,we established the following: 1. ANGER is a powerful emotion that leaves you feeling sore in embarrassing places 2. Many homes have been destroyed on account of ANGER 3.ANGER never pays This ANGER of a thing what causes it? Is it my thoughts? or do I overreact? Please note this, the way you see yourself matters, if you see yourself as a hopeless person, you will not see anything good coming your way, you will always have issues added to your daily life. Eh! Me ke? Abeg let me be going&#128514;&#128514;&#128514;. Yes You! Negative thinking propels one's attitude in the wrong direction so correct your thinking patterns... And so? What is the connectivity between thinking pattern and ANGER?? <<< If your mind is full of only negative thoughts,you will have an outburst when a threat strikes your emotions. <<< Most people feel threatened by individuals who don't listen to them when they talk. So when angry, do you imagine th...